Blogging Out of A Block

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It happened again. I created a challenge for myself to get myself out of a block, and then got blocked after the deadline came.

In this case, my challenge was creating a blog post with a 15 minute time limit for the month of June. It went off swimmingly. I dared myself to share myself more authentically. I did some writing that thrilled me with its honesty. I got over my perfectionism. I learned how to do more breezy, shorter posts.

But... what happened after June 30th?

A three week block of postlessness that's ending right now.

I am currently in Massachusetts, visiting my parents with Mio. I am off my routine and in the land of easy comfort. Mio is in day camp. And I find myself with some delicious bug-free free time. But then the pressure is on.

Here are some difficult questions I am considering that I thought I'd share as a way to make contact again.

    How do I share here when I am not sure what I have to say?

    How do I convey my story in a way that integrates all my contradicting selves yet communicates what I need to say in a relatively precise way? How do I weave my personal history into a story that people relate to both in its specificity and its universality? How can I use simplicity to express complexity?

    How do I stay connected to my authentic self while being away from my guitar, microphone, studio, husband, classes, therapist?

    How do I reach more people?

    How do I not spend all my money in the land of plenty?

    How do I get feedback about my art? Meaning, how do I know if I am really reaching people with my personal or universal streams of consciousness? And if not, how do I go about getting closer to that connection?

    How do I decide how transparent I am willing to be?

    How do I help my parents accept my choice to live in Mexico?

    A better question: how do I help myself accept their lack of acceptance?

Zoë Dearborn

Zoë Dearborn is here to inspire humans to fulfill our deepest potential and highest purpose through her philosophy that combines spirituality, psychology, the arts & education, using her original songs, classes, essays, videos, dance, events, poems, talks & stories. She holds an MA in Counseling Psychology & Expressive Arts Therapy from California Institute of Integral Studies and a BA in Studio Art and East Asian Studies from Oberlin College. She spent her first thirty years in Brooklyn, and now lives off the grid, in the desert, with her husband and seven year old son in Southern Baja, Mexico.

http://www.zoedearborn.net/
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